Want a little relish with that?
Do you relish the process of daily living? We may remember to "screw the result", but without "relishing the process" that leaves us without a lot to get excited about. Not to mention that if, after all that, we don't end up with the hoped-for result, what is left if we don't have a pleasant journey to reflect on? When I first heard this expression I had all my emotional energy focused on an outcome I was hoping for: If I do A, then B will happen....no? Well maybe if I do A, B, C and D, then E will happen? Well, to make a long story short, I spent a phenomenal amount of time beating my head against a metaphorical brick wall trying to break through to an outcome that not only was clearly not meant to be, but that also in retrospect would probably have turned my life into a train wreck! Are you nodding yet? Safe to say we've all done it...."I'll finally be happy when..." "The only thing I really need is...." "It'll hap